At one point in your life, people will start questioning you. They will start asking you the reason why. Why did you do that? Why did you leave? Why did you stay? Why do you choose her? Why did you let go? Why didn’t you take the chance? Why did you go for it? Why do you love him? Questions like that.
And as you answer them, some of them will start judging you. Why did you do that? It’s so funny, it doesn’t make any sense, you did wrong, it’s not okay, you surely are in need for help, it’s ridiculous, you’re pathetic. Something like that. They will start looking at you, laughing at you, talking about you behind your back.
But you know what, you don’t have to listen to the negatives. If it doesn’t help you to be a better you, ignore it. But if it does help you, hang a little on, and be better though it’s very painful.
And the most important thing of all, don’t do the same to others. Don’t judge them. Instead, understand them. Cause this world is already full of people who judge, and what it needs is people who understand.